Speech: The Art of Generally Specific Attacks.

Okay. So, I started writing this blog in 2007 to vent my frustrations in a way that could be constructive and informative without resorting to circular speech and/or yelling. Whether it was about customer (dis)service, poor customers, road rage, or other general malaise of societal problem, this blog was created to help me communicate my feelings better. Thank you all for sharing my feelings with me.

Now, I bring up a very sensitive subject regarding equality among the sexes, and my analogy from my last post, which was intended to be very general, and many couples in this world can completely relate to, was taken as a specific attack against one person who takes offense because I didn't make clear that I am not attacking the entire woman race. I am sorry for the misunderstanding and the miscommunication.

Plenty of women in the world have gone completely nuts on their significant other for various things and what I have learned is quite simple.

Women do not think logically. They think emotionally.
Example. A woman does not express her feelings to her mate because he should know her well enough to read her mind and if he cant she is going to get upset because he should be more in tune with her.
Men think logically, they do not always think emotionally.
Example. A man will choose to get upset and express his anger or dissatisfaction about a current condition completely oblivious of the emotional impact it may have on those near him, then completely forget the fact of what he got angry with in the first place, then wonder why his mate won't talk to him...

Liken Men to dogs, and women to cats. A cat won't tell you she doesnt want to be pet until after you have done it long enough for her to rake you with its claws drawing blood. A dog will look at you with sorrow and grief after you rub his nose in the poo he left on the carpet 5 minutes ago and completely forgot it was his but still love you because he is a loyal and faithful companion.

Now, does this opinion of mine blanket all women or men? NO, how can it possibly mean that everyone acts this way? This mearly is my interpretations of my life events that have led up to this conclusion.

My point on my previous post was the expressing of my feelings towards books and self-help guides that promote the demasculinization(sp) of men and promote the unfair and unethical treatment of men due to fem-nazi's deciding that men are only to serve the 'better' sex.

My point was to express my views on how women 'in general' demand equal rights, but will stand there and wait for the boyfriend to open the door. Or wait there in the car while its pouring down cats and dogs as her man fumbles his keys instead of unlocking the door for him, then complain that she is getting wet from the water dripping off of him when he finally gets in the car. Has my girlfriend, who is wonderful and supportive done this to me? No, and I don't think she would... but that doesnt mean some woman somewhere past or present or future hasn't done it or won't do it.

Rachel: Please understand that I love you with all my heart and soul... this post and the previous post was not intending to put you into a category of women from my past. i <3 u

Insightfulness, uselessness, pointlessness...

"Women are from Venus..."

Everyone that has watched TV knows this quote, but I don't know where it came from.. but honestly, after reading what my g/f wrote one day...

The difference between men and women is, men like movies where a lot of people die quickly... Women like movies where one person dies slowly and painfully...

My response.. "Womenz is sadistic."

Equality

Now I love my girlfriend with all my heart. (I know I sound like a teenager, but she makes me very happy) but generally speaking. There is no such thing as equality among the sexes... Let me explain.

Man: "Hunnie, I am hungry, lets go out for dinner."
Woman: "Sounds good, but I am not really that hungry."
Man: "Okay, what are you in the mood for?"
Woman: "I don't care, I am not really that hungry."
(guy takes it upon himself to pick a restaurant, and chooses a gourmet burger joint)
Woman: (sighs)
Man: (Listens to radio as they drive to the restaurant)
Woman: (sighs louder)
Man: "Whats wrong hunnie?"
Woman: "Nothing...."
Man: (shrugs and continues to listen to the radio and navigate thru traffic)
(They arrive at the restaurant, and the woman stands there impatiently, her body language screams 'I don't want to be here.')
Man: "Hunnie, whats wrong?"
Woman: "(sighs) Nothing..."
(they are seated and he orders a meal fit for a king, she barely glances at the menu and orders a small salad and a glass of water.)
(they eat in silence, he finishes his burger and fries and downs a couple drinks. the ice in her water as all but melted completely away and she has barely touched her salad)
Man: "Darling, love of my life, what is bothering you?"
(the third of a string of inquiries to determine the nature of her problems, and for some reason this is the catalyst to cause an acidic reaction that explodes into atomic proportions that she miraculously contains and clearly states) "Nothing..."
(the couple stands up and leaves the restaurant, she leans against the car door avidly avoiding his gaze and questions until they get home, and suddenly without explanation or warning, she releases a torrent of fury and wrath that catches him so off guard he stumbles with his words and his thoughts are in a complete jumble...)
Man: (angrily) "What the fuck did I do wrong this time?"
Woman: "I didn't want to eat at 'some' burger joint!"

Now lets pause a second.... At what point did she say where she wanted to go? And why is it his fault she didn't speak up?

Wake up and smell the pile of shit your making girls... Your man, as much of in love you are with him cannot read your mind... Open your mouth for something other than complaining and you wont have to experience these kinds of issues.

AMENDMENT: My beautiful and wonderful and supportive girlfriend made perfectly clear in her comment that she was offended by this post. Honestly with all my love and support, I can say... "Good!" This post was meant to stir feelings of anger, awaken thoughts of wrong doing, and create a general state of shock that, in my hopes, would change the way women treat men in general. If I had wanted to attack specific women in my life for this, I could start the list and still not have ended it in the time it took me to write the damn post. Women want equality, but in the end they think that the world revolves around them and their whims.. **okay, most, but not all women think this**