Okay. So, I started writing this blog in 2007 to vent my frustrations in a way that could be constructive and informative without resorting to circular speech and/or yelling. Whether it was about customer (dis)service, poor customers, road rage, or other general malaise of societal problem, this blog was created to help me communicate my feelings better. Thank you all for sharing my feelings with me.
Now, I bring up a very sensitive subject regarding equality among the sexes, and my analogy from my last post, which was intended to be very general, and many couples in this world can completely relate to, was taken as a specific attack against one person who takes offense because I didn't make clear that I am not attacking the entire woman race. I am sorry for the misunderstanding and the miscommunication.
Plenty of women in the world have gone completely nuts on their significant other for various things and what I have learned is quite simple.
Women do not think logically. They think emotionally.
Example. A woman does not express her feelings to her mate because he should know her well enough to read her mind and if he cant she is going to get upset because he should be more in tune with her.
Men think logically, they do not always think emotionally.
Example. A man will choose to get upset and express his anger or dissatisfaction about a current condition completely oblivious of the emotional impact it may have on those near him, then completely forget the fact of what he got angry with in the first place, then wonder why his mate won't talk to him...
Liken Men to dogs, and women to cats. A cat won't tell you she doesnt want to be pet until after you have done it long enough for her to rake you with its claws drawing blood. A dog will look at you with sorrow and grief after you rub his nose in the poo he left on the carpet 5 minutes ago and completely forgot it was his but still love you because he is a loyal and faithful companion.
Now, does this opinion of mine blanket all women or men? NO, how can it possibly mean that everyone acts this way? This mearly is my interpretations of my life events that have led up to this conclusion.
My point on my previous post was the expressing of my feelings towards books and self-help guides that promote the demasculinization(sp) of men and promote the unfair and unethical treatment of men due to fem-nazi's deciding that men are only to serve the 'better' sex.
My point was to express my views on how women 'in general' demand equal rights, but will stand there and wait for the boyfriend to open the door. Or wait there in the car while its pouring down cats and dogs as her man fumbles his keys instead of unlocking the door for him, then complain that she is getting wet from the water dripping off of him when he finally gets in the car. Has my girlfriend, who is wonderful and supportive done this to me? No, and I don't think she would... but that doesnt mean some woman somewhere past or present or future hasn't done it or won't do it.
Rachel: Please understand that I love you with all my heart and soul... this post and the previous post was not intending to put you into a category of women from my past. i <3 u
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
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