Thursday, October 2, 2008
Women.
Why is it that you can be single, have so many gal friends who love to talk/text to you about there problems and then sit there and say oh im so bored. But yet when u say hey let me buy you dinner just as a friend that way you have something to do and the excuses fly? I feel used, this happens more often then not, so my general response is "oh thats fine im used to that response." Then i get the general response back "oh your being stupid shut up!" as in a playful manner... Yes i love being single, but damn, i like to hang out with friends and dont always enjoy it being a sausage fest. No offense guys but comon u have to know where i m coming from. Its just nice to see/hang out with the opposite sex once and a while. Anymore i dont expect to hang out with anyone, i dont invite myself anywhere for the simple reason of hey im sure there will be an excuse made and the "plans" wont happen anyway. Again it happens more often then not and im starting to realise what a "real friend" is over a fake just need someone to gripe at/keep me busy till my "real" friends are there.
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Here is what you do. Hang out with the guys, and dont sweat the petty things. Look, its not rocket science. If you invite them to hang out with you solo, they think something is going on. if you're in a group its not so bad. just make sure that the group youre running around with arent as hard up for female attention as you are. Or make yourself perfectly clear when you set up a hang out time that you are interested in this or that gal, not to interfere or you'll put your size 12 shoes up thier number 2 hole!
what i mean is when im bored and there bored and i say hey lets hang, if you want to do this or this i will pay for ya since your low on cash or to be a gentlemen i hear aw your so sweet but i couldnt and [enter excuse here]. not when im hanging with the guys. im not interested in anything but hanging out and having a good time with them.
Thats the game of life my friend. Girls are complicated (I'm glad I don't have to date anymore...). Hanging out solo is a major confrontation no matter what your intentions, thats going to trigger fight or flight from most girls you ask. It'l happen eventually though.
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